Our Father, which art in heaven, Hallowed by thy name. Matt 6:9

Realizing that mere titles do not guarantee a credible perspective, I can only write from the heart and hope the following message reaches the intended audience.  Initially, I am drawn to the story of a preacher whose plan it was to hit the streets of a city with good news only to be buffeted with the words, “Suppose no one listens?”  Without batting an eye, he countered, “At least I’ll get to hear it.”  That is the attitude I desire to share with the men of this Southcoast area and beyond who have the privilege to walk in the role of “father” and who strive to uphold the fullness of that vital position.

For all intents and purposes, fatherhood is the maturing blend of several responsibilities (which include being a provider, protector, teacher, priest, and friend).  To be sure, these many hats demand the highest level of commitment and are most difficult to fulfill.  Any man having made an honest parenting effort has the reward of inner peace when looking into his son’s or daughter’s eyes.

Charles (Chuck) Colson, the late and former incarcerated counselor of President Richard Nixon, who eventually transformed to become an evangelist and faithful father figure in prison ministry, once shared a story that painted the other extreme.  A prominent card company offered male inmates free Mother’s Day cards.  There was such a long line of takers that more cards needed to be ordered.  In spite of their circumstances, the theme spoken through these wayward sons was, “Mom, I love you.”  When the card company decided to offer the same opportunity on Father’s Day, there was no line… not one taker.  The silence of these same sons shouted a sad and tragic message.  “Dad, where were you when I needed you?”

Father’s Day is a day that honors those fathers who give their all (in love) to the position.  Life’s journey constantly reminds us that we are far from perfect, but one absolute is that every father has the opportunity to try his best to continually improve along the way.

Much like Chuck Colson, as dads, we can find practical guidance in accepting the plan of the Father of Heaven, who unconditionally loved us enough to send His Son Jesus to die for the imperfect things we’ve done.  We can be grateful this day to know that He has forgiven our many shortcomings while at the same time continues to help equip us to be the fathers we need to be.  What’s more, let’s stand fully convinced that our Father in heaven will always be there when we need Him.

To the vast numbers of fathers who will read these words, please consider what I’ve shared. From my heart to yours, have a Happy Father’s Day!

John 16: 26-27; John 17